tried moving the maf out further from the turbo? i had a friend a with a single cam ka-t with the maf butted up to the turbo like that and was having all kinds of stalling issues. we ended moving the maf further from the turbo and wa la.
also for the blow off valve you want manifold vacuum and not throttle body vacuum.
(the difference is manifold at idle 18" of hg, 0 pressure, if n/a, at wot. and throttle body vacuum would be the opposite, but in reality you would probably see a few inches of hg at idle with tb vacuum because the tb doesnt close completely and because of the iacv)
but if your teeing your bov from the large rubber hose coming off the intake, then your problem more than likely lies there. tee into the brake booster hose before the check valve, or at the vacuum source for the fpr.