I am miserable what should i do?

A friend of mines is in the Marines...only 2 ways out. Prove that your gay, and or go to jail. I dont know if you have to prove it, but they may ask you.

-Buriantsu
 
no comment on this whole fucking thread ::sigh::

rx7_guy said:
My advice..

Finish...yeah the whole 4 years. Is it going to kill you? Sometimes we make mistake and you have to learn to bite the bullet. You should have done your research before you entered. I know A LOT of military guys and its not that bad....We simply can't control everything in life
and you have to except your faith some times.

Suicide is just a cheap way out.
Going to jail/prison is probably 10x worse.
Drug possession...nah...The real question is why you joined in the first place.
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thank you
 
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PlatanoDrifter said:
I wasnt asking only for advice on gettign out i was kinda also asking advice and how to cope with it but it seems the majority say to get out.......And to the outher comments above im not whinning like a little babby i am actually FUCKING HATEING IT and being mad all the time makes me miserable....every day its a struggle not to punch the living shit out of someone...... i dont know it basic did it or if i had it before but now when i get mad i just want to strangle the shit out of someone till there on the brink of death then let them get some air as i beat the shit out of them......i dont know about you but that doesnt fuckign seem normal.....so i want out before i hurt someone or a way to controle this fucking rage i developed.........so far my counselor has said its due to past issues in life combined with stress and the training techniques they use that are causeing these feelings and i i tell them is fix it.....so dont tell me to grow a fucking pair of balls before i got ripp yours off and show em to you.........on a lighter note its not so hot today and thats a plus..............ok look im not trying to be an asshole but just because you or someone you know went through it doesnt make me the same....i am tired of being compared to outher people and you dont know the shit i have gone through before i joined.... i am not just a cracker ass rich fagg thats here for thrills like alot of morons that are here.. i'm here because i thought it would be the right fucking decision in my fucking life and that i might like this shit but it turns out its a load of fucking bullshit and im already too fucked up to get more fucked up like some people i have meet here already........so FUCK OFF IF you think im a pussy i dont fucking care i am just asking some general questions on what people think and not askign for insults in the procees especially by someone who is assuming shit about me.......assume breack that word down to find its meaning your make an ASS-of-U-&-ME ASS-U-ME so dont asume shit about me if you dont know me......everythign else was fine till you got to be a smart ass and say grow a pair;)
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respectable but alot was blah blah blah i commend u on doing something i would never have done. but seriously man it isnt like youll never get out. hell i never even researched it and all ive ever heard was exactly like u describe it. i know back in the day it was all to completely break u to learn to hate and dehumanize ppl makin it easier for u to cope with killing on the field. just know that its a test and to not let it get the best of u try meditating reading or w.e. i could only imagine how much it sucks dick but seriously dont be a pussy millions get through the army are u gonna be one of the fags that commit suicide or act gay to get out of it?

oh and grow a pair balls ;)
 
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Carlos you know whats right for you.. do what you think is best not what others think is best for you..
 
they should have weight rooms in your base..

working out helps get out a lot of anger.. beating the shit out of a heavy bag will let you get your anger out until your dead tired too.. just some food for thought.


or you can transfer to the navy, where you can see the other side of the world... or transfer to the chAIR FORCE where you don't have to do anything, and you probably will be stationed inside the country somewhere.
 
dude in all honesty...suck it tha fuck up....waaaa...."im in the military"....all this advice these ppl are tellin u is a bunch of bullshit...from ppl that arent even in tha military or never even experienced it to begin with....I was in tha marines and yea of course there is goin to be bs...but where can u go where there isnt....when you go to tha desert and get shot and see real shit then you can post threads bout how shitty you got it...im not goin to sugar coat shit for you. and im sure as hell goin to tell you how it is...now dont go slicing your wrist......

And trust me....you arent killin ppl in no training.....

Your still a "boot"(basically a newb) my friend...you're still in school right? cause what it looks like you aren't even in the real fleet. I don't know how the army works but in the Marines I got to choose my duty station and I happened to get Japan....best 2 yrs of my life. and had nothing to do with being in the military...its because i dealt with it and met some cool Japanese ppl to chill wit....I know what you mean..you are going to run into some dummies all the time who you going to wanna choke...i did too...but when it came to that free time it was worth it that i didn't fuck up.

Trust me don't get in trouble.. don't be know as that "shit bag" cause trust, it sticks...dudes i know that were those guys in the brig(jail)...getting into fights, getting rowdy...because you know what...they will make it worse than what you think is hell...your freedom is the most valuable...don't let them take it. Be smart.
 
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Ni-Shi-Sero said:
dude in all honesty...suck it tha fuck up....waaaa...."im in the military"....all this advice these ppl are tellin u is a bunch of bullshit...from ppl that arent even in tha military or never even experienced it to begin with....I was in tha marines and yea of course there is goin to be bs...but where can u go where there isnt....when you go to tha desert and get shot and see real shit then you can post threads bout how shitty you got it...im not goin to sugar coat shit for you. and im sure as hell goin to tell you how it is...now dont go slicing your wrist......

And trust me....you arent killin ppl in no training.....

Your still a "boot"(basically a newb) my friend...you're still in school right? cause what it looks like you aren't even in the real fleet. I don't know how the army works but in the Marines I got to choose my duty station and I happened to get Japan....best 2 yrs of my life. and had nothing to do with being in the military...its because i dealt with it and met some cool Japanese ppl to chill wit....I know what you mean..you are going to run into some dummies all the time who you going to wanna choke...i did too...but when it came to that free time it was worth it that i didn't fuck up.

Trust me don't get in trouble.. don't be know as that "shit bag" cause trust, it sticks...dudes i know that were those guys in the brig(jail)...getting into fights, getting rowdy...because you know what...they will make it worse than what you think is hell...your freedom is the most valuable...don't let them take it. Be smart.
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i second that.

although i was never in the military, i did see how the base worked. in okinawa i talked to a lot of marines and ppl in the army and most of them loved it. but i get here and i see marines who havent even step foot outside of the country, and say that the marines suck.

i have friends who were dependents who are in the military now, and they are even saying that it sucks, but they know, in a few years when they get to choose where to go, they are heading strait over sees.
 
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yeah i was told by my company comander that my MOS doesnt ship to japan and it the vast majority go to germany korea and hawaii and you only get to pick three top places you'd like to go....it doesnt mean your going there its just a refference for the people assighning you the duty stations
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O ok..so its similar to tha marines then....you pick three top spots and hope you go to one of those or if not the main one. And I understand about the school bein delayed. My training got delayed when I got to MCT because we were basically waiting for other ppl to finish. And when you in between cycles waitin like that it seems ppl get into trouble cause you just wanna do your shit and get to your real school and get to the fleet. So when that dont happen...U get aggressive...things piss you off more and you get...."miserable". Jus hold out bro. A lil bit of time wont kill you. In the mean time keep busy. Read. Work out. Find somebody you can talk about drifting with. Anything that will keep you from snappin. Over time you develop thick skin and see that shit wont bother you as much. Im not tryin to be a counselor or sayin I got a PHD but I jus tryin to give you tips that worked for me. And when you kno it 2yrs goin to be shaved off quick...

Mountain_Man said:
i second that.

although i was never in the military, i did see how the base worked. in okinawa i talked to a lot of marines and ppl in the army and most of them loved it. but i get here and i see marines who havent even step foot outside of the country, and say that the marines suck.

i have friends who were dependents who are in the military now, and they are even saying that it sucks, but they know, in a few years when they get to choose where to go, they are heading strait over sees.
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true that.......And when I was in Okinawa it was all I knew...so when I got to Cali..I saw that ppl were like hatin life....so it got me hatin the Marines cause I was so use to Oki. Didnt need a car...but came back here and ppl and the distance thing sucked.
 
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Stay strong. Keep in touch with your friends on the outside just keep your eye on the prize (getting out of there) You'll pull through. My sisters bf got kicked out with a dishonorable discharge for getting shin splints during training. You dont want anything like that on your record people look at that as if your a traitor or something. Just stay strong if you have to hit something because your mad hit a pillow no use in hurting someone else because your upset. The only way I get through things I hate or dislike is just by keeping my head up and looking toward the future. Look at the bright side of things I bet your family and friends are thinking about you non stop and you'll be able to see them when you get out. If you hate who your around and their bullshit talking and immaturity gets to you get an ipod or something listen to music to take your mind off of it.

just my 2 cents

Keep your head up and stay strong bro
 
im here thinkin your like about to get shipped out to iraq and shit lol
your bros over seas are dealin with way worst dont be such a pansy
 
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