perfect thanks alot for the insights im jus gonna go with a nice shock/spring combo the car needs a lil bit more fine tuning b4 she can hit the tracks so yea for those who were interested my mods include:
exterior:s13 silvia conversion,black roof
interior:s14 seats,nismo steering wheel,r34 shiftnob,PARTIAL 5 point harness,gutted rear end
suspension:front and rear strut bars,front and rear bottom control arm braces,front and rear urethane sway bar bushings,front and rear tension rod bushings
engine:ka24de,hotshot headers,248 grind cams,aem intake,custom 2.5 in exhaust
brakes:brembo rotors,hawk pads
soon to come:sr20det redtop from jdm of miami,coilovers