Bladder. We met and talked on few occasions. Maybe less than 10, it's irrelevant. It doesn't take more than a few minutes of interaction with you to find out what a unique and cool person you are dude. You might not read this, but I just have a lot respect for you and what you've done. And I wish you the best of luck. Putting myself in your shoes, I see myself making the same decision, getting the fuck outta here and leaving this mess behind. Because that's what it is. A fucking mess.
Manny. I don't know what happened dude. I've met you a few times too, and got really cool vibes from you. So I'm not gonna sit here and chastise you in any way. I am going to say this though, if this chick came up to you and uuhh you know? Pretty much let you hit it. Then you have nothing to apologize for, you're a man right? It's fucked up. Very fucked up, because it's Bladder and you should have gone up to him first and let him know what was going on ... so he doesn't uuuuhh. FIND OUT.
If this went down the way everyone's thinking it went down. You handled it wrong bro. I'm pretty sure if you would have been a friend, and told him what was going on, things would have turned out different.
And to finish my input on this topic for good. Bladder got betrayed, he's not coming back people. I hope I'm wrong, call me a pessimist. He's not coming back.
Good Luck Dude. You're definitely going to be missed.